To Understand Rather Than To Assume

Many people concerned about what others think about them. They think of what others are thinking about them. They assume they know what others are thinking about them, usually based on their own perception. Emotionally effective people break the cycle of this guessing game and start to ask, of course in a nice way. In reality, we would not be able to understand exactly what is going on in others' mind unless we ask them.

理解而不是假設

許多人關心別人對他們的看法。 他們猜測別人對他們的看法。 他們假設他們知道別人對他們的看法，通常基於他們自己的看法。 情緒智慧高的人只是打破猜謎遊戲的循環，並開始以一種善意的方式提問。 實際上，除非我們提問，否則我們無法準確理解他人心中的想法。